Wednesday, December 22, 2010

A man never knows how to say good-bye

If egotism means a terrific interest in one's self, egotism is absolutely essential to efficient living. The trouble with so many of us is that we underestimate the power of simplicity. We have a tendency, it seems, to overcomplicated our lives and forget what's important and what's not. We tend to mistake movement for achievement. We tend to focus on activities instead of results. And as the pace of life continues to race along in the outside world, we forget that we have the power to control our lives regardless of what's going on outside. The formula of achieving a successful relationship is simple: you should treat all disasters as if they were trivialities but never treat a triviality as if it were a disaster. When I hear somebody sigh, "Life is hard." I am always tempted to ask, "Compared to what?"

Never regret. If it's good, it's wonderful. If it's bad, it's experience. I look to the future because that's where I'm going to spend the rest of my life. I guessed your friends are definitely right. Listen to them because friendship is certainly the finest balm for pangs of disappointed love. Love doesn't just sit there, like a stone; it has to be made, like bread, remade all the time. Every instance of heartbreak can teach us powerful lessons about creating the kind of love we really want. So made new.. if you get what I'm trying to say. I know you're struggling and suffering. Just stop. There's someone else surely can makes you laugh. If grass can grow through cement, love can find you at everytime in your life. Go create a new and happy one for yourself.


- an advice for ya.. "the first duty of love is to listen"


Monday, November 8, 2010

sacred items of Amir Haridan

1. wallet with no money inside it
2. wrist watch
3. perfume
4. wedding rings
5. college ID card
6. house keys
7. thumb drives
8. mobile phone























9. cheap lappy
























10. favorite red boy bag
11. the 'kapok'














12. new 1 Ringgit Malaysia necklace made by myself

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Sunday, November 7, 2010

Garden of Mystery

"Know that the world is a mirror from head to foot,
In every atom are.a hundred blazing suns.
If you cleave the heart of one drop of water ,
A hundred pure oceans emerge from it;
If you examine closely each grain of sand,
A thousand Adam maybe seen in it.
In its members a gnat is like an elephant,
In its qualities a drop of rain is like the Nile.
The heart of a piece of corn equals a hundred harvests.

A world dwells in the heart of a millet seed.
In the wing of a gnat is the ocean of life..
In the pupil of the eye a heaven.
What though the corn grain of the heart be small
It is a station of the Lord of both worlds to dwell
there in".


~ Mahmud Shabistari

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

capish


. . . . "A real man makes the first move" . . . .


~ I
L O V E Y O U ~
S Y A F I Q A H F A U Z I




my blog is private now but I couldn't care less about you seeing this.
cause you already gave me your answer

Monday, November 1, 2010

'back then'



"You really love her, don't you?"

A simple psychological question. Not a single name was mentioned. But suddenly, someone came into your mind as you read it.

We live in a world where all we do is strive for more. But why can't we be happy with what we already have?? If you can take a lesson from "You never know what you got, until it's gone", maybe we'd learn to appreciate what we have more often. You can't always get the perfect moment, all you can do is make the best out of the circumstances. Because there will never be the PERFECT 'soul-mate', but there will be the one you learned to love; the flaws and everything else in between.


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"knowing that I can’t see you every day and be there for you when you need me"

I am not perfect.
But I tried so hard. I tried harder than you could ever imagine, and now here I am, trying my best just to forget everything. Every piece of you, the way you smell, the feel of your hair. I can still feel you. I think I always will


I wonder, what life would you lead if you had never met me back then....
...probably you be...

.....Happier now.....




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sometimes, I wonder..
what your life will be now if you never met me back then..